Well, if we are getting personal, I did sleep with guys when I was at the Uni. These days I feel I am over the stage when you just sleep with people to try to find out what it would be like, but if at this moment in time I met a guy I'd want to have a relationship with I'm certain I wouldn't give it a miss. I've been through a divorce comparatively recently, so I'd probably be even more inclined to try a relationship with someone of my own sex.
That said, the problem, at least for me, wasn't "getting up", i.e. acknowledging one's sexuality in public - the problem for me was more the actual wording of the initial and subsequent posts by Hey!, which I can't help finding inappropriate and not very pleasant for the lack of a better term for Andras - and I find Andras' taking it in his stride truly dignified.
As for the moderator, the problem for him seems to be the mentioning of the Pope in that first post by Hey!, relevance of which is a total mystery to me. I take it Hey! might enlighten us as to the reason why the Pope got drawn into this whole thing, but personally I'd prefer not to know as 1. I'm not really insterested and 2. it might cause more controversy and the moderator may get even angrier.
I am very sorry if Andras sticks to his decision to abandon the forum. I've only just joined the forum after years of luriking and the only person I'd known and talked to prior to joining, albeit a while ago and outside this board, is Andras, so one may easily assume knowing him's one of the main the reason I joined at all

It' be truly awful so see him leave.
I apologise for this long tirade, just thought I'd make my position clear. Hope you are having a lovely day, ladies and gentlemen of this forum
