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Gay members on this forum
« on: March 03, 2007, 09:36:16 am »
What do you think,how many gay members are on this forum? I know only 1 (Cs. Andr
« Last Edit: March 05, 2007, 07:17:05 am by Hey! »

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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #1 on: March 04, 2007, 08:00:17 pm »
What do think,how many gay members are on this forum? I know only 1 (Cs. Andr
« Last Edit: March 04, 2007, 09:51:50 pm by Cs. Andr »

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« Reply #2 on: March 04, 2007, 08:09:02 pm »
I had no idea - being a newbie myself - but then I did know Cs. Andr
« Last Edit: March 05, 2007, 06:08:17 am by i.s. »

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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #3 on: March 04, 2007, 09:51:08 pm »
"pregnant dog"

:D I like the software of this forum. This of course is supposed to be b*tch :) I feel 'pregnant dog' is not really giving back the idea i had in my mind.

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« Reply #4 on: March 05, 2007, 07:38:00 am »
Don't worry,Andras. There's nothing wrong with you,really. I didn't want to hurt you and I hope you're happy with your boyfriend.
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« Reply #5 on: March 05, 2007, 07:44:34 am »
Don't worry,Andras. There's nothing wrong with you,really. I didn't want to hurt you and I hope you're happy with your boyfriend.


What an odd thing to say - why should he worry or think there's something wrong with him?
« Last Edit: March 05, 2007, 07:45:37 am by i.s. »

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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #6 on: March 05, 2007, 08:55:20 am »
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What an odd thing to say - why should he worry or think there's something wrong with him?

Well,it seemed that he is uncomfortable with his sexual identity. I just tried to console him :)


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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #7 on: March 05, 2007, 11:04:41 am »


Well,it seemed that he is uncomfortable with his sexual identity. I just tried to console him :)




Andras does not seem to be in need of consolation to me. Not waving rainwbow flags in every post does not mean someone's "uncomfortable with their sexual identity", does it?
« Last Edit: March 05, 2007, 11:53:43 am by i.s. »

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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #8 on: March 05, 2007, 11:42:02 am »
Okay guys, you can stop arguing about my psychosexual development :) I'm totally fine.

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« Reply #9 on: March 05, 2007, 11:52:51 am »
Well, arguing about something, be it your sexual preferences or anything else for that matter, is better than discussing nothing. Come on, the forum's been DEAD for like months :)

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« Reply #10 on: March 05, 2007, 12:27:16 pm »
Well, arguing about something, be it your sexual preferences or anything else for that matter, is better than discussing nothing. Come on, the forum's been DEAD for like months :)

Well, if that's the only alternative topic, than it better stays dead :)

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« Reply #11 on: March 05, 2007, 01:02:23 pm »
Well, arguing about something, be it your sexual preferences or anything else for that matter, is better than discussing nothing. Come on, the forum's been DEAD for like months :)

My apologies, Andras - I was speaking for this other chap here - he is obviously of the opinion that discussing someone's sexual preferences is rather entertaining. I personally think that stuff like what you do and with whom is no-one's matter unless you decide otherwise - that's why his remarks seemed inappropriate to me.
« Last Edit: March 05, 2007, 07:42:44 pm by i.s. »

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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #12 on: March 06, 2007, 02:27:32 pm »
WOULD THE REAL LEDY STAND UP???  HEY???  I.S.???
I NEED TIME TO COMPLICATE YOU

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« Reply #13 on: March 06, 2007, 03:45:17 pm »
Well, if we are getting personal, I did sleep with guys when I was at the Uni. These days I feel I am over the stage when you just sleep with people to try to find out what it would be like, but if at this moment in time I met a guy I'd want to have a relationship with I'm certain I wouldn't give it a miss. I've been through a divorce comparatively recently, so I'd probably be even more inclined to try a relationship with someone of my own sex.

That said, the problem, at least for me, wasn't "getting up", i.e. acknowledging one's sexuality in public - the problem for me was more the actual wording of the initial and subsequent posts by Hey!, which I can't help finding inappropriate and not very pleasant for the lack of a better term for Andras - and I find Andras' taking it in his stride truly dignified.

As for the moderator, the problem for him seems to be the mentioning of the Pope in that first post by Hey!, relevance of which is a total mystery to me. I take it Hey! might enlighten us as to the reason why the Pope got drawn into this whole thing, but personally I'd prefer not to know as 1. I'm not really insterested and 2. it might cause more controversy and the moderator may get even angrier.

I am very sorry if Andras sticks to his decision to abandon the forum. I've only just joined the forum after years of luriking and the only person I'd known and talked to prior to joining, albeit a while ago and outside this board, is Andras, so one may easily assume knowing him's one of the main the reason I joined at all :) It' be truly awful so see him leave.

I apologise for this long tirade, just thought I'd make my position clear. Hope you are having a lovely day, ladies and gentlemen of this forum :)
« Last Edit: March 06, 2007, 04:30:50 pm by i.s. »

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Re: Gay members on this forum
« Reply #14 on: May 19, 2007, 09:07:12 pm »
Hi!

The moderator is still smiling but is asking nicely to respect other forum member's religion (bit about the pope..), nationality, sexuality etc

If this is not the case, topics will be closed.

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